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The best sex toys for men

Get ready to get revved up.
By Mashable Team  on 
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Our Top 8 Picks

Fleshlight Masturbator (opens in a new tab)

Best For Simple Pleasure

This super popular masturbator is the gold standard. Based on famous porn star Riley Reid.

The Good

  • Easy to clean
  • Pleasurable texture
  • Award winning
  • Top brand name

The Bad

  • Cleaning materials are sold separately

The Bottom Line

There are a lot of sleeves on the market, but the tried-and-tested Fleshlight is the best bet.
Pros & Cons

Arcwave Ion (opens in a new tab)

Best For New Experiences

An innovative masturbation tool that uses air to tease, suck, and stimulate men in new and different ways.

The Good

  • Pleasure Air technology
  • 8 intensities
  • Charging base
  • Fully waterproof
  • Hypoallergenic silicone

The Bad

  • Pricey pleasure

The Bottom Line

If you're looking for a different type of stimulation, the Arcwave Ion might be the best sex toy for you.
Pros & Cons

LELO Hugo Prostate Massager (opens in a new tab)

Best For Prostate Stimulation

A prostate massager that fits neatly. Controlled with the touch of a button.

The Good

  • Remote control
  • Two vibrating motors
  • Multiple settings
  • Waterproof

The Bad

  • Expensive

The Bottom Line

Hands-free stimulation from a top brand. Sure, it’s a splurge, but your prostate deserves it.
Pros & Cons

Tenga Eggs (opens in a new tab)

Best For Travel

Great for when you're short on suitcase space, or for anyone who's new to the world of assisted masturbation.

The Good

  • Small and discrete
  • Travel friendly
  • Hygienic
  • Stretchy for all sizes

The Bad

  • One-time use

The Bottom Line

Perfect for anyone who's hesitant to dip a toe (or anything else) into the world of masturbation toys.
Pros & Cons

Blowmotion Masturbator (opens in a new tab)

Best For Blowjob Simulation

A toy and wraps around the head of the penis to recreate the specific pleasure of oral.

The Good

  • Slippery, smooth glide
  • 6 vibration patterns
  • 3 intensities
  • Waterproof

The Bad

  • Needs lube

The Bottom Line

You'll be amazed at how much it feels like the real thing.
Pros & Cons

Ultimate Performance Male Sex Toy Kit (opens in a new tab)

Best For Versatility

There’s nothing wrong with having it all. This set will get you there and then some.

The Good

  • Great deal
  • High-quality products
  • Everything you need
  • Well-reviewed pump

The Bad

  • Loud vibrator
  • Sleeve tight for some

The Bottom Line

If you’re ready to try something new but don't know what, this kit offers a bit of everything.
Pros & Cons

Hydromax9 (opens in a new tab)

Best For Showering

A see-through penis pump that uses water instead of air to create trademark suction.

The Good

  • Crystal clear to watch the action
  • Boosts length and girth
  • Increases blood flow
  • Gives stronger erections

The Bad

  • Pricey

The Bottom Line

If you’ve tried penis pumps but felt underwhelmed, this new sensation may be a better (and tighter) fit.
Pros & Cons

Colt Snug Tugger Penis and Balls Ring (opens in a new tab)

Best For Beginners

A C-ring that restricts blood flow to the penis, resulting in harder and longer erections.

The Good

  • Easy to put on
  • Non-obtrusive
  • For penis and balls
  • Cheap

The Bad

  • Can pull hairs

The Bottom Line

One of the easiest trinkets to incorporate into your sex life. And it gives you a big-time payoff.
Pros & Cons

This content originally appeared on Mashable for a US audience and has been adapted for the UK audience.

The world of men's sex toys has more options than ever. All to help you get off. From regular old masturbation aids to sex toys designed to satisfy your geekier side, the wide range of options means there’s something for everyone. 

While it may seem sometimes like male sex toys are getting left out of the current sextech revolution, that’s far from true. Real sex positivity applies to everyone, which is why we’re excited about sex educators and smart companies working to buck the stigmas associated with male masturbation and backdoor experimentation.

If you're looking for a new sex toy but don't know where to start, here's a quick guide.

Are there different types of sex toys for men?

We've checked out everything on offer, and helpfully organised the primary types of sex toys you are likely to encounter:

Masturbators The masturbation sleeve is a manual kind of sex toy into which the user inserts their penis. It is supposed to mimic the feel of a vagina, mouth, or anus, depending on the model you purchase. It's a simple idea with impressive results.

Massagers Interested in experiencing a super intense full-body orgasm? Who isn't? This might seem obvious, but prostate massagers are sex toys designed to massage the prostate. Stimulation of the prostate can be a game-changer.

Cock rings We don't need to explain this. It's in the name. But why would you want to use a cock ring? These sex toys are used to help maintain longer and harder erections, which may result in penetrative sex lasting longer. Sounds good, right?

Dildos and plugs These sex toys can be used by just about anyone. They come in all shapes and sizes, and are simply used for penetration. They are also extremely versatile, and can be used for solo play or for spicing things up with a partner.

Bondage gear So you might not think about bondage gear as a sex toy, but you should. Bondage toys are all about pushing boundaries and trying something new, and that sounds like a sex toy to us.

You might come across something that doesn't quite fit into these categories, but the vast majority of sex toys for men will fall into one of these areas.

What is the best sex toy for men?

Thinking about experimenting with anal play? Ready to size up from plugs to prostate massagers? You’re in luck. We've scoured the web to find the best male-oriented sex toys for every need — all built to heighten sexual pleasure and explore new realms — whether you’re looking to go solo or pair up with a partner.

These are the best sex toys for men in 2023.

Note: For the purpose of this article, we are looking primarily at toys that are intended for use by people who are assigned male at birth, which means they are recommended with the same enthusiasm for anyone with a penis/prostate regardless of gender identity. We’ve also included a couple of products suitable for trans men.

Best For Simple Pleasure
Credit: Fleshlight

The Fleshlight(opens in a new tab) is best-known name in men's masturbation toys. There’s a good reason for that. Because according to Fleshlight enthusiasts, the brand’s higher price point is justified by both the increased pleasure and always-reliable durability. The Fleshlight can certainly take a pounding. Ahem. It lasts longer than other sleeves.

Some reviewers specify that the Fleshlight texture helps them last longer, while others find it to be more pleasurable than other models. Either way, it's win-win.

While the Fleshlight featured here is the "Riley Reid" design (named and moulded from the real-life porn star) there's also a model that simulates anal penetration(opens in a new tab). Don't forget add-on purchases like sleeve warmers, shower mounts, and even a tablet holder so you can combine your Fleshlight with some Pornhub action. 

Best For New Experiences
Credit: Arcwave

The Arcwave Ion(opens in a new tab) offers a totally new type of stimulation. So, if you're looking to try something new, this might be the sex toy for you.

This is the world's first stroker to integrate Pleasure Air technology for men. But what is Pleasure Air technology? (We hear you ask). Put simply, this technology teases, sucks, and stimulates the Pacinian pleasure receptors. These receptors are incredibly sensitive, so the pulsating airwaves help you achieve a completely new level of orgasm.

It's made from CleanTech silicone that is really easy to keep clean. All you need to do is twist off the upper part, rinse with water, and place it back on the discreet storage base to dry. This base doubles as a charging station that will charge your device automatically, with LED indicators showing the battery level.

Best For Prostate Stimulation

If you like anal play — and you also like putting the power in your partner's hands — the LELO Hugo(opens in a new tab) is a truly state-of-the-art sex toy.

It's a waterproof, remote-control prostate massager that features two powerful motors at opposite ends. Indeed, the LELO Hugo is made for serious intensity. LELO claims that it has the potential to “increase the size and intensity of the male climax by 33 percent.” And who doesn't want that, fellas?

Either pop it in for solo play or pass the controller, and your pleasure levels, to your partner. They'll know what to do Reviewers enjoyed both full-body and hands-free orgasms. At almost £150, it's an investment piece, but well worth the money. 

Best For Travel
Credit: Tenga

Some male masturbation aids can be intimidating, but Tenga Eggs(opens in a new tab) are just the opposite. Originally created in Japan (where masturbation culture is much more open) these little silicone eggs are actually quite “kawaii” (meaning cute).

They’re simple to use: Just add a little lube and stretch it over the head of the penis (similar to putting on a condom) before going about a session as you usually would.

For folks already familiar with Tenga Eggs, the “Hard Boiled” edition refers to the six new textures being debuted, made with thicker and stronger material.

One potential drawback: They're only meant for single use. Although some reviewers say that with care, you can make them last for multiple uses — up to 10 or so. That said, they're reasonably priced and unobtrusive enough that they also make a great travel companion when you don't want to pack your pricier toys. 

Best For Blowjob Simulation
Credit: Lovehoney

There's nothing quite like a blowjob, is there chaps? Whether she (or he) isn't the type to dish them out all the time, or you just want more blowies than your partner can realistically fit into the day, the Blowmotion Masturbator(opens in a new tab) from the ever-reliable Lovehoney will keep you going. (Or should that be blowing?)

It envelopes the head of the penis and delivers a smooth-but-moist action, with multiple vibration and intensity settings. That's all controlled by easy-to-access buttons. And fear not: It's totally waterproof so you can use it in the bath.

It might seem pricey, but that's really just the going rate for some decent sex toy tech, though you will have to add lube to properly replicate that blowjob sensation.

Best For Versatility
Credit: lovehoney

For those looking to get into the sex toy game by jumping in headfirst, the Ultimate Performance Male Sex Toy Kit(opens in a new tab) may be just the thing you’re looking for. 

Equipped with a butt plug, cock ring, masturbation sleeve, and penis pump with a detachable vibrator, this kit is marketed towards someone on “a voyage of discovery.” And at less than £50, you're really getting some bang for your buck.

Satisfied reviewers noted that the kit is a true bargain and that the products were all high-quality — especially the pump. Happy times, fellas.

Best For Showering
Credit: Amazon

The Hydromax9(opens in a new tab) is a new kind of penis pump. It uses water instead of air to create an stronger suction. According to the manufacturer, it's made for the shower or bath.

Simply fill it with water and then start pumping away. The vacuum effect will encourage blood to flow into your shaft, promoting stronger and more sustained erections. Any excess water will flow out the end of the toy.

The manufacturer also claims it can improve penis length and girth. The see-through design means you can watch the action, which — let's be completely honest, fellas — is part of the fun. This new style design is made to be more comfortable. It's also less likely to allow unwanted air leaking inside while it's in use.

Best For Beginners
Credit: California Exotic Novelties

The Colt Snug Tugger(opens in a new tab) takes the traditional cock ring design one step further by adding an extra loop to incorporating the testicles. And by incorporating, we mean give those chaps a good squeeze. Because that's what the Colt Snug Tugger does best.

It works by restricting blood flow to the shaft of the penis, resulting in harder and longer erections, while supporting the testicles with a delicate squeezing sensation. (Never had a ball-squeeze? Time to give that particular avenue of pleasure a whirl.)

Some satisfied reviewers have rated the ring for a bonus feature: Some added clitoral sensation for female partners. Which is always welcome.


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