Best sex toys for men: From Fleshlights to plugs and beyond

The Fleshlight is perhaps the most well-known name in masturbation sleeves, and there’s a reason for that. According to reviewers, the brand’s higher price point is justified by its increased durability, lasting longer than other sleeves. While many reviewers did specifically mention that the texture of this model — the Stamina Training Unit(opens in a new tab) — was useful in helping them last longer, others simply stated that they found it to be more pleasurable than other models.

While the Fleshlight featured here is the "Lady" design, there is also an option that simulates anal penetration(opens in a new tab), plus opportunities for add-on purchases like sleeve warmers(opens in a new tab), shower mounts(opens in a new tab), and even a tablet holder(opens in a new tab).

If you’re already a fan of your Fleshlight, know that the Universal Launch(opens in a new tab) can take your masturbation game to a whole new level. 

Strap one of the nine compatible Fleshlights into this automated toy, and experience what it really means to sit back and relax. Powered up, this toy will move your Fleshight for you, accommodating various stroke speeds and lengths that you can easily adjust with two buttons on each handle. Once it’s going, this toy can reach up to 250 strokes per a minute, lasting up to one hour on a full charge. If you tend to be more forgetful about charging devices, no worries — you can still use Universal Launch as its plugged in and charging. 

Yes, it is undeniably expensive, but it also does most of the work for you and has the power (literally) to really get you there. Plus, the smartphone mount at the top makes it easy to watch your favorite content or have an extra fun video chat with your partner. 

See how the plusOne Vibrating Ring compares to other budget-friendly sex toys.

People dig cock rings because they restrict blood flow and delay orgasms. While the snug, stretchy band of the plusOne vibrating ring adjusts to fit most penises and achieve this goal easily, the fun doesn't stop there.

This ring comes with five different vibration modes that can keep you nice and stimulated for up to two hours. When it runs out of power, no worries — plug in the USB charger and you'll be fully powered up in just an hour. If you're into enjoying you time in the bath or shower, this nifty vibrating ring can join you, as it's completely waterproof. 

If you want to use this during intercourse, we wouldn't recommend relying on this toy as a clitoral stimulator. This is not a fault of plusOne, more so of vibrating cock rings at large. However, it definitely does the trick in holding off an orgasm for a bit longer, all while providing some pretty sweet buzzy sensations. 

More from Culture Reporter Jess Joho: 

"[Cock] rings are a sex toy staple and useful for penis-havers who benefit from help in delaying orgasm. PlusOne's no-frills offering won over Satisfyer's more fancy app-enabled Royal One on fit alone, with a more accommodating elastic band."

This highly intense anal toy(opens in a new tab) brings you pleasure in two places at once, with beads meant to massage when inserted and a vibrating base to tease the perineum. 

Since anal beads typically deliver pleasure through the act of being removed, its clever shape allows for easy partial removal and penetration without disrupting the rest of the action. This means it can be used easily during intercourse. One of the top 10 prostate massagers available at Eden Fantasys, its reviewers were(opens in a new tab) especially impressed by the “expertly placed” vibrations. 

If you're looking for some anal play that puts the power in your partner's hands, the Hugo(opens in a new tab) is truly state-of-the-art. A waterproof, remote-control prostate massager that features two powerful motors at opposite ends, Hugo is made for intensity. In fact, LELO claims it has the potential to “increase the size and intensity of the male climax by 33 percent.” 

Reviewers who enjoyed it were keen to note full body orgasms and hands-free orgasms. At more than $200, this is definitely an investment piece — but well worth the price.

See how the Tenga Spinner Tetra compares to other budget-friendly sex toys.

If you find yourself wishing that the Fleshlight was a little less pricey and a little more subtle, know that there are other options out there. And one such option, the Tenga Spinner Tetra, is just built different. 

This sleeve is lined with 3D-printed geometric tiles that cause the Spinner to twist — hence its name — as you insert and stroke. There’s no twisting of your wrists or learning curve necessary to experience some truly unique and truly pleasurable sensations. You will want to use lube to have the best experience, as you would with any other sleeve toy. Unlike the Tenga Eggs, this product is intended for reuse and is easy to watch (and its bottom cover doubles as a hygienic drying rack). 

The sleeve itself is stretchy enough to accommodate various sizes and flexible enough to twist easily. There are Spinners in the series(opens in a new tab) lined with different shapes, providing a range of sensation and tightness. However, if you’ve never used a spinning sleeve before, Tenga recommends starting out(opens in a new tab) with the Tetra. At less than $30, why not? 

More from Culture Reporter Jess Joho: 

“My partner tested out all the Tenga samples provided, and the Tenga Spinner Tetra was by far the winner. Not a huge fan of more typical sex toys for penis-havers like Fleshlight's pocket pussies, Tenga's Spinner was the first masturbation sleeve that ever felt worth the added step.”

A few years since the 2016 debut of the “first FTM Masturbator," adult film actor Buck Angel is back at it with a new twist. After hearing feedback about the Buck-Off, Angel has created another model meant to satisfy a wider variety of users. 

The Kiss-X(opens in a new tab) features a smaller hole intended to be used for people with a clitoris that is not enlarged enough for the Buck-Off, such as trans men who are not doing hormone replacement therapy or those who are earlier into their transition. There's a bit of a learning curve, but the suction sensations can make it well worth it.

See how the Tenga Egg Variety Pack compares to other budget-friendly sex toys.

You might notice these eggs look a little different than the rest of the toys on this list, but their differences are what make them special. And by special, we mean a great sex toy for beginners and old pros alike. 

Each of the eggs in this set has a unique pattern to provide their own pleasurable sensations to the tip of the penis. This standard variety pack comes with wavy, boxy, brush, tornado, sphere, and silky patterns. It also comes with its own lubricant, so once you open the egg, you can directly apply the lubricant and enjoy. These features make this toy much easier to pack than say, a Fleshlight, but that's not all — they also make this toy a fun, easy, and cost-effective way to sample what you like. 

The eggs are disposable, so clean up is nice and easy, but if you do find a pattern that you particularly like, you can buy a non-disposable version — it just might cost you a bit more. If you wouldn't mind getting at least a few uses, some reviewers claim that with cleaning and care, you can extend their lifespan a bit longer. 

More from Culture Reporter Jess Joho: 

"Each egg has a unique pattern that brings lots of concentrated stimulation to the tip of the penis. It's worth springing for the variety pack so you can get a sense of what patterns you like and then purchase the non-disposable version of it."

One of the newest pleasure products from MysteryVibe — the UK-based company that became famous for its unisex vibrator(opens in a new tab) — has come up with a new vibrating device to be worn around the penis and testicles, with special attention paid to the perineum.

The Tenuto is a wearable vibrator for men and seems to be an especially promising new take on the traditional cock ring. With six motors and a water resistant design, the Tenuto is controlled via app. One reviewer noted(opens in a new tab) that “the app is straightforward and offers some interesting options and functionality,” with another adding that it is easy to cycle through the vibration options.

For those looking to get into the sex toy game by jumping in headfirst rather than simply dipping a toe, this kit may be just the thing you’re looking for. 

Equipped with a butt plug, cock ring, masturbation sleeve, and penis pump with a detachable vibrator, this kit is marketed towards someone looking to “lead a voyage of discovery.” And at less than $60 for all four pieces, you're really getting the bang for your buck.

Happy reviewers noted that the kit is a true bargain and that the products were all high-quality (especially the pump). One reviewer did note that the vibrator, when used with the penis pump, is a bit on the loud side, and while others noted the sleeve was a bit on the tight side. Since this is an affordable kit, none of these toys are the very-top-of-the-line on their own, but overall, it's a great way to test out a bunch of different types of toys at once without breaking the bank.